I had a very sad experience getting my normal morning cup of coffee at the Wawa on my mourning drive. There is a lovely, very nice cashier that was exceptionally nice to me about a week ago. I felt a connection with her and decided to share my business card with her. I was thinking that with her smiling, wonderful, positive personality, she would be a great candidate for personal wellness and transformation coaching. She was definately one who seemed to be in a good place to go to her next level of greatness in all aspects if herself. So the next time I saw her I gave her my card.
Little did I know, she was offended. The next time I saw her, she let me know in front of a line of people, in a polite and nice way, as I checked out. It was what she said that has stuck with me. She stated, “Do I look like someone who needs a life coach, I lost 150lbs and I go to the gym”. She went on to tell me that she went home and cried. I apologized and left; however, I was very sad for this women. Why?
Besides the fact that I made her cry, I felt a sense of sadness because I realized that she is a person who lacks confidence and is likely holding herself back from her next level of greatness. Basically, she can’t see that she is in her own way. She is her own obstacle in her path to her next level and wherever that would take her.
I truly believe we all need and should have a coach particularly for wellness, fitness, nutrition, and just generally getting our bodies right. It is so important because everything about us stems from the fuel we put into our bodies. Further, the treatment, care, and condition of the human body influences the condition of the mind and the spirit. The greatest machine of all is the human body!
The need for a coach in this area is so important because the average, modern human being has, in general, become complacent, lazy, neglectful, and downright lacking of knowledge regarding health, wellness, and fitness. This is one main reason we are riddeled with disease both physically, mentally, and emotionally.
What my friend at WaWa failed to realize is she is a great, beautiful human being. She doesn’t realize that wherever we each are at any given point and time there is a next level. There is a next personal best for all of us. I need a coach still even though I coach. The greatest people have coaches, mentors, supporters to continue building on there growth and to continue their journeys to new personal heights and greater places in their world.
I leave all of you with the following. Don’t limit you to where you are right now! Take the next step and rise to your next personal best physically, mentally, and spiritually. When something comes into your path to help you move forward recognize it and take it.