How I use flexible dieting to transform my body and live a healthy/fit life style ?

I personally hate the name “Flexible Dieting” because it has the word “diet” in it and diets are something that are a fad, short lived, and do not produce sustainable results. Flexible dieting does not share any qualities with the term diet as we have come to know it. So let’s start by defining flexible dieting.

Flexible Dieting is also known as,  ‘If It Fits Your Macros’ (IIFYM). Basically it refers to counting macro-nutrients (protein, carbohydrate fat and fiber) to achieve a body composition goal. Basically the individual, has a set macro-nutritional plan to follow on a daily basis. An individual’s macro-nutrient needs are calculated by using total daily energy expenditure and desired outcomes. The focus here is on overall body composition as opposed to weight loss or gain; therefore, calorie counting takes a back seat.

So what does this mean about food?  The general thinking about food is that there is no true good or bad food regarding weight loss/gain or your body composition goals. Now, of course, that does not mean eat all processed, GMO filled, high fat, junk types of food because we know that, based on current research, that poor quality food does not support good overall health. Furthermore, current research in the field of nutrition, supports eating whole, non processed, green foods and meats/poultry that is free from hormones/antibiotics and has been raised free-range/ uncaged. When food enters your body it is not determining good or bad; rather, it is simply breaking down and processing the nutrients the best way it can in order to function at optimum efficiency. This makes a lot of sense when one considers the metabolic process/metabolism. The metabolism, simply explained, is the physical and chemical process that our bodies use to break down what we put into our body and produce energy. If that process is inhibited or taxed because of what we eat or do not eat then it malfunctions. For example, we see a lot of metabolism issues because many people eat a lot of foods that are nutritionally deficient and suffer from malnutrition in the modern age of having an abundance of food and food choices. This is occurring all over the world and people are simply becoming fatter and sicker as a result.

I count every macro nutrient that goes in my body. I can tell you what I ate a week ago and break it down because I meal plan and stay within my macro-nutritional plan. It’s really as simple as that. This means that I choose to take the time to plan what I eat, how and when I will prepare it, and how I structure my meals/eating throughout any given day. Everything I put into my body is measured and counted. Furthermore, I choose to eat my own food most of the time. I rarely eat out and when I do, I am very selective as to place and food items. The bottom line is that flexible dieting is an easy concept that anyone can apply in their lives today and forever; however, the issue for many of us is the discipline it takes to stay on top of taking care of ourselves before sickness and disease force us to have someone else care for us.

Regards All!

Coach Debbie





What made your day today?Just a man and his dogs!

Like everyone, I prepare for each day much the same; however, I have come to a place in my existence where I am able to stop in the flow of my normalcy and take in moments to make each day special. There are times when one moment stands out as extra special and eventually comes to be a part of my day. Meaning that if that moment does not present itself then I actually miss it and seek it out the following days wondering what happened.

Todd and his two beautiful dogs have become a special moment in my day. Each morning I find Todd, Little Willow and Reba outside the WaWa where I stop and get coffee. Todd has breakfast with them and feeds them sauage, bisquits, and gravy with a spoon. Every time I see them, it warms my heart and I am reminded of the goodness that still exists within humanity. The love, compassion, and mercy Todd shows to Little Willow and Reba is a blessing to see each day.

Take a moment and look around? Where is your special moment in the day?

Living In The Moment!

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What do you tell yourself?

When we look around at others and see people struggling we can easily relate and tell ourselves how awesome we are that we have overcome this and that. However, when we look around and see successful people, especially in areas we are not finding so much success in, we do one or all of the following three things:

  1. We tell ourselves, “I am fine with who and where I am, I am ok with being fat and happy” ( for example).
  2. We tell ourselves simply, “I can’t do that either and I am ok with that”.
  3. We tell ourselves, “I don’t have time, money, or the ambition to do that and it’s ok”.

All of those things are nothing more than excuses that allow any one of us to avoid taking a real hard look at ourselves and being “real” and honest with our current state of affairs. In this article we are specifically talking about health, wellness, and fitness. The intention here is to motivate you to question yourself, identify your own weak points, and work on them for your benefit. For those that have a hard time with a dose of reality and deem my approach as insensitive, a put down, or simply not the right “fit” for your style. Please remember one thing, the “right fit”  is called status quo and leaves you wallowing in your comfort zone. If you do not seek out ways in which you can filter the tricks your mind will play on you (as we are all human and fall victim to our own minds) and allow for an avenue where you can receive reality checks then you will simply not grow and you will remain in the same spot you are in right now. And, this is even more true when it comes to our view of our bodies, what we eat, whether we exercise, and how fit or unfit we are. The following are some “get real with me” thoughts.

  1. Time- This is the most common excuse I hear for people not to commit to what it takes to make real changes in their health, wellness, and fitness. I have one thing to say, If you cannot find 60 minutes in a day to devote to your own health, wellness, and fitness then you have no life! I suggest that you seriously look at what you do and make changes. If you do not then you will be one of the hundreds of thousands of people across this planet with one or more of the common modern day diseases (diabetic, heart disease, cancer, anxiety, depression to name a few). You will run yourself into the ground and one day wake up and realize that you wasted most of the precious time given to you doing things that did very little for you or the world. If you want to be healthy and fit then you MUST choose to be healthy and fit. You MUST take steps to become healthy and fit. And, you MUST make the time to become healthy and fit. If you don’t make the time then there will never be time.
  2. Money- This is another one of the most common excuses I hear for people not to commit to what it takes to to make real changes in their health, wellness, and fitness. Money comes and goes; however, your health, wellness, and fitness does NOT! When your health, wellness, and fitness is gone……it is gone and very difficult to regain if it is able to be regained at all (depending on circumstance and/or illness). Our priorities are not in the right order. We get that money for the annual family vacation, Christmas, family dinner out once or twice a month, or that dress or bag; however, putting money on a serious avenue toward fitness and wellness is not possible. The reality is that none of those other things are as important as you health, wellness, and fitness. Non of those other things will matter if you are suddenly struck with a life threatening and/or debilitating illness or even death. The reality is that the first priority for where we all should spend our money is on our health and  fitness.
  3. “I just can’t do it”- This is another common phrase I hear from people regarding their health, wellness, and fitness. Honestly, this translates into “I won’t do it”. YOU can do much more than you think you can do! The problem is that, like all human beings, we want to take the easy way. We want the results to be quick and fast and if they are not then we give up. We also tend to want things on our own terms or we want the results to line up to what we believe they should be along the way. Well, sorry to tell all but that is just not the way it works. You will have to try something, adjust it, readjust it, and even then the results will come in the time that your body takes to respond to the demands you are placing on it. You must get the right support. This starts with a good coach and a comprehensive health, wellness, fitness program. That comprehensive program must include 3 components: (1) individualized/customized strength training, (2) individualized/customized cardio, and (3) an individualized/customized macronutient plan. You most certainly can do it if you want to do it!

The bottom line here is that we tell ourselves all sorts of crazy stuff. Let’s be real with ourselves for our own benefit and launch ourselves into the best version of ourselves possible (both inside and out).

I Changed My Thinking, It Changed My life!

Coach Debbie

What Helps With Soreness From Work Outs?

There are four products I use when Ihave to push through the soreness of building strength and muscle. They are:

1) THT’s BCAA’S.

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2) Epsin Salt + 10 Drops of Doterra’s Deep Blue Essential Oil.

3) Doterra’s Deep Blue Rub

4) Doterra’s Deep Blue Supplements

I usea combination of these products to combat soreness. No harmful chemicals, highest quality purification ptocesses used, purist products on market, and no GMO.

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How do we truly maintain flexible dieting within a macro nutrient plan for a life time? It’s All About the Choices We Make

Flexible Dieting a Lifestyle Change

Flexible dieting, in very simplistic terms, is when we change our macro nutrient intake (carbohydrates, proteins, sugar, fiber, and fat ) from time to time to get a desired result. The desired result could be weight loss, muscle gain, or developing tone and definition to the body. As we progress monitor we collect data and change the macro nutrient intake based upon the progress monitoring data we get from our bodies response to those changes. Factors such as rate of weight loss, increased/decreased fatigue, rate of muscle development, body fat numbers, injuries, lack of response, overactive response by the body and so on.Flexible dieting is well researched and is the only way that I know of to truly make changes that get results and can be sustained for a lifetime.

The key here is the sustainability for a lifetime because, as we all likely know by now, diets are not sustainable. That is why people fall into the trap of yo-yo dieting, starvation, binge eating, eating disorders, and loose weight only to gain more pounds back than they started at initially. The next trap we tend to fool ourselves with is the thinking, “well I eat healthy and exercise….so i am choosing a healthy life style”. It certainly is the case that even when we are not following a program some of us make better health choices than others. However, my experience, looking at clients three day macro averages, tells me that most of us, despite how clean and healthy we think we are eating, are either starving ourselves (literally extremely nutritionally deprived) or we are not providing our bodies with the correct balance of macro nutrients to help our bodies run like well maintained machines.

The first choice that we must make is to be open minded to learning something new or a different way of doing things. You cannot grow and reach new personal heights unless you are willing to listen, learn, and change. This means that we allow new information in and work through the frustration that comes along with change. Embracing and welcoming the process is key to minimizing frustration and moving forward one step at a time.

The second choice that we must make is to commit to learning how to and execute meal planning and preparation. You cannot know what your body needs unless you know exactly what you are putting into it. You also cannot know how to adjust and/or trouble shoot challenges you will have unless you know exactly what and how much of those macro nutrients you are putting into your body.

The third choice and this is a BIG one! Once you have adjusted to meal planning and you have a rhythm to how you make it happen, what you choose to put into your meal plans comes into play. This will determine if you are left hungry at the the end of the day or if you feel satisfied throughout your day. For example, I love Clif bars; however, on my low carbohydrate days, one Clif bar uses up so many of my carbs that I feel cheated by the middle to end of my day. What happens then?  I either stick with it and push through or I cheat. I learned fast to make better choices. I no longer eat a Clif bar on a low carb. day because I can find better food items that leave me full and satisfied.

The bottom line is we all make choices that push us forward to be the best we can be or set us back and keep us from realizing our greatest potentials that are buried within ourselves. Where we are, in all aspects of our lives, is based on the choices we make. Look in the mirror and the most obvious place one can see the manifestation of those choices is in the outward appearance of our bodies. 

I am currently recruiting for Team Hardbody’s full body 16 week transformation program.  There will only be 4  serious people, who are ready to take their bodies to the next level, chosen. This is life changing! It’s time for you to choose to be one of those 4 who get the opportunity to change their lives! Email me at or text me “!  16 Week Transformation Program_Coach Debbie at 607-345-7623

Live today with passion and conviction!

Coach Debbie

It’s A Wrap: Coach Debbie On True Wellness & Fitness


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I remember when I could convince myself of almost anything regarding me and my relationship with food. I would tell myself such things as , “I eat pretty well”, “I don’t drink soda anymore”, and ” I work enough all day so working out….no need”. All the time I was telling myself these little fibs, I was growing bigger and bigger and sicker and sicker. Now I got away with this in my twenties and thirties. Then the big 40th birthday hit and so many things changed. Not only did I have to go to the eye doctor because I couldn’t see to read anymore, I learned, on my birthday, that I needed bifocals. Lord was I ever taken aback—-thank God for invisible lines! Then years started passing by again and over a period of five years or so, I simply could not get rid of those added pounds anymore. Further, I was not feeling well either. I started to hurt all over my body, my skin was dull and blemished, and i had no energy. I was tried all the time. I still did nothing! Then my 50th birthday came around and I was heavier than ever, could barely do a flight of steps, was in pain much of the time, and suffered from migraines. Worse yet my depression and anxiety was less and less easy to control. I was a mess!

I started reading a lot about health and wellness. I felt so bad that I just couldn’t fool myself anymore. I had to do something. In all my reading and information gathering, I learned  true wellness involves knowing three areas very well and doing one thing:

  1. Nutrition
  2. Exercise
  3. Preventative Self Care

The one thing that is critical, after educating yourself in those three areas is to get the right coach and support system in place. It is so much easier to transcend where we are and move to greater places when we are not doing it alone. And, let’s face it, we all cannot know everything we need to know in order to take the actions necessary to get results. There is simply so much junk and “quick fix lies” out there that it severely stifles our ability to even get the right information. Let me break down those three areas because they are so important.


What you put into your body counts! Everything counts! The human body is  a perfectly designed machine. If the right fuel is put into the human body then it runs with perfection. Even in moments of illness and disease, the body is designed to heal itself. The problem in modern times is our food sources are not pure and many food sources are not even true food. We are a over fed and literally malnourished. To put it in even more real terms, we are a fat race that is literally starving at the same time. What is the answer? The answer is, eating whole foods. Eat food that are in their true form and organic. Instead of eating frozen french fries, eat an organic, baked potato. Eat out as little as possible. Knowing what is in your food is key to making sure your body gets the nutrients it needs to function properly. It is even more important to learn what different foods, minerals, and nutrients do regarding the healing of the human body. Once you start knowing the healing elements in foods then you can treat yourself naturally. Nutrition is 80 % of your overall fitness/wellness.


You have to move to keep muscles in shape. The reality that most of us fail to acknowledge is that modern living does not require the needed movement that our bodies need to gain and maintain optimum fitness and wellness. Just think about it for a moment. How much do each of us walk each day? We have cars, elevators, and escalators that move us from point A to point B. Many of us have desk jobs so we sit a majority of the time. We simply don’t live life styles that require a lot of physical movement and energy expansion. The human body was not made for this severe lack of physical exertion. The truth is if we don’t use our muscles we loose them……meaning we use strength. This means that we need to make an extra effort to find ways to get the physical exercise our bodies need. The only way that the modern human being can get the amount and type of physical movement needed to be fit and healthy is to have a well designed workout plan. Also, the caveat to a well designed workout plan is that it must be designed for an individuals unique body type and unique body challenges. And, the only way you can get a well designed workout that is specific to your individual needs is to consult and work with someone who is trained in this area in, what I call, real world applications. What I mean is that someone can be formally trained in this area which means he/she is grounded in theory. Although all  formal education is great  to build a foundation or knowledge base, and increase that knowledge to higher levels, the most important education in this realm is real world experience in what works and what works is always grounded in current research and best practice. The problem is that many of those grounded in theory only do not realize this and produce cookie-cutter plans for their clients. The clients are often left wondering why they are failing so miserably in the area of their fitness and wellness journey. The answer is to get a coach, who has a solid knowledge base and real world experience and work on learning how to create meal plans and when and how to adjust them based upon and individuals needs identified in progress monitoring. What you do is 20% of your overall fitness/wellness.

Preventative Self Care

The third area that needs attention is preventative self care. This means that each individual should have a natural, holistic, self care plan to protect against physical, mental, and emotional stresses which can result in illness and disease. We live in times when we have been conditioned to find a pill to cure our ailments. What this contributes to is two things that are very bad for the overall functioning of the great machine we have been blessed with–the human body. First, when we feel a pain or discomfort (eg, headache) our body is telling us something is wrong. The body then administers its own defenses to deal with the negative force that is producing the pain or discomfort. What do we do? We feel the pain or discomfort and we take a pill for relief. This keeps us from feeling the pain and shuts down the natural defense system in the body. The result is that whatever is actually going on remains inside the body and is hidden. We think its gone, but it is not. It is still their working against the health and wellness of the overall system. Second, any human made medications contain contents that are not good for the human body. As a matter of fact many are actually toxic to the body. This means that we willingly take in toxic materials which adds to the already high level of environmental toxins we take in everyday. The answer is to educate yourself and gain resources about natural, plant-based remedies. Every organic fruit and vegetable has nutrients in it that are healing properties for the human body. I also use DoTerra essential oils in my healthcare plan. Between organic, natural foods and the highest quality, most pure essential oils on the market, I have a plan to set my body up for success. It is important that we all are proactive in working with our body’s natural mechanisms to promote our overall health.

The bottom line is that you must educate yourself in the areas of nutrition, exercise, preventative Self Care to set yourself up for success in attaining your optimum health, wellness, and physical fitness. And, get a coach on your side to be on your journey with you. I started with Team Hardbody Coaching and experienced so much success that I joined them as a coach.

Coach Debbie

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Don’t Hustle Yourself Out of Those Precious Carbs: Use Your Carbs Wisely!

Oh My Precious Carbs!


One area that I struggled with for some time is how I used my daily allotment of carbohydrates in my meal plan. In my meal plans, I tend to start with items that I have determined are my non-negotiables. My non-negotiables are food items that I have decided I just must have. One of those was my vanilla coffee creamer. I must have creamer in my coffee and I must use enough to make my coffee very mild in color and flavor. After analyzing my meal plan with my coach, I w as able to realize that the creamer alone used 20 of my carbs. That is 20 carbs that are not working to fill me up.  This was only one item. Once I added up all those non-negotiables, I found that I was cheating myself out of valuable nutrition. No wonder I felt hungry much of the time!

I learned that it is crucial to focus much of your intake on whole foods so that you are filled and left satisfied. For example, a 4 oz potato and my coffee creamer have about the same amount of carbohydrates. The potato will fill me and provide my body with adequate fuel while the creamer will leave me hungry and deprived of the needed amounts of nutrients to fuel my body. It’s all about being smart.